Sunday, June 30, 2013

Book Haul & Collective (7) Book Review!!!

This week's reading related post (RAWW) is going to be a long one. First off, I have a little haul to share. I got these books after my last reading post so I couldn't include them then. The rest of the post includes reviews of some books that I've read since summer vacation started. I plan to do another collective book review iA before the school year starts again, so check back for that if you are interested!

Book Haul


 
 
I need to practice for my Praxis exams so I got a workbook from Amazon and to get free shipping, I got Laurence B. Brown's 3rd novel. Excited to read it!
 
 
Not included in the above photo is a copy of Reclaim Your Heart by Yasmin Mogahed that I bought for a friend. To read my review of this book, click the title. I need to read The Secret Garden for uni. next semester so I included this in my cart. Barnes and Noble was having a sale of buy 2 classics get the 3rd free. Since I've wanted to read more Grimm's fairy tales, I got a copy and chose Aesop's Fables as my 3rd to also get free shipping at $25.   
 
Book Reviews
 
 
Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher

To read the description of Thirteen Reasons Why on goodreads.com, click the title.

I really liked the idea of using audiotapes with the subject of suicide. I never read any books using either one, so this made the book more interesting. Other subjects mentioned throughout the book that I liked was bullying, realistic relationships that go wrong, and the crazy lifestyle of partying and drinking (and driving). One of Hannah's brief encounters included a guy who took advantage of girls. This guy was described as "treating them [girl's] like meat" (260). Unfortunately, this is true in reality and I think more people (females) need to realize this and stop being so naïve for their own safety. Of course everyone isn't the same, but it is better to be safe than sorry.

On the subject of suicide, I also liked that the warning signs of a suicidal individual were mentioned throughout the book. Some of  these signs include "a sudden change in appearance" (173) and "giving away possessions" (233). Any good book on this subject should include similar information. While I was reading Thirteen Reasons, my mind went back to middle and high school. Some of the characters reminded me of people specifically and the major subject of bullying stood out to me since I was bullied in middle school. Again, unfortunately bullying really does happen to almost everyone and even more nowadays.

I've been getting into YA (young adult) books the past few weeks and while I don't like everything about many of them, I try to learn something from characters and their situations in these books. Some "lessons" that are good to learn/ remember from Thirteen Reasons is that everyone should appreciate everything and everyone before they lose and regret it. This is obvious in the book through the loss of Hannah. Also, we all need to remember that our actions, big and small, do have an affect on others. So we need to be careful and smart in the way we treat others.

There were a few things that I didn't like about Thirteen Reasons. For example, the typical graphic and unnecessary details that are part of YA books. In addition, I didn't like Clay's commentary between Hannah's story. While it may have been necessary to the author and liked by some readers, I found it annoying because I was interested in Hannah's side of the story. However, I didn't like how Hannah was constantly blaming others for her actions leading to her committing suicide. I previously said that we should all be careful and smart in the way we treat others because our actions affect others. But, it isn't right to blame others for all of our actions. No one is "pointing a gun at our heads" making us do certain actions. The way Hannah was going on about how people were wrongly taking advantage of her which made her give up and let them continue their mean actions wasn't a good message to readers. If someone is treating us badly, we should try and be stronger and get help asap. While many people were cruel to Hannah first, she didn't make her situation any better by putting herself in the wrong environment and being around the wrong people even after she knew people were using her. Okay, enough bashing of Hannah and her story.

Overall, I gave this book 4/5 stars and recommend it to high school students and staff and to an older audience. To purchase a copy of Thirteen Reasons Why, please click the title.

 
Just Listen by Sarah Dessen

To read the description of Just Listen on goodreads.com, click the title.

A few words I would use to describe the overall subjects in this book are modeling, eating disorders, and relationships. Like Thirteen Reasons, the first two subjects were the first time I was reading about them, and first time exposure to new subjects are usually always interesting. I really liked that there are many "lessons" to be learnt/ reinforced from this YA novel.

Just Listen has a perfect example of how "friends" influence each other A LOT, so be careful who your friends are! Everyone should also learn to speak up and out at the proper time. Voicing one's opinion/ feelings, especially when one has been wronged against, should be discussed to prevent regrets and emotional and mental pain. For example, if Annabel spoke about what happened to her when it first did, she wouldn't have felt hopeless and suffered as much if others knew. This was one reason that I was annoyed with this book, because of Annabel's character.

Modeling isn't all it's cracked up to be either as seen in the sisters. Annabel took a long time to get her feelings out about modeling (139), while Whitney suffered through a disorder! Furthermore, appearances can be deceiving, as Annabel emphasizes through her family's glass front house. "The dining room was right at the front of the house, though, so when we ate dinner, we were always in full view. From my seat at the table, I could always see when cars passing would slow down slightly, the drivers glancing in at us for this snapshot, a happy family seated around a hearty meal. But everyone knows looks can be deceiving" (49). To outsiders, everything may look well and good, but there is more to people than what meets the eye. Owen is another example of this. While he looked intimidating, it took Whitney a little time to get to know him as a friend.

Overall, I gave this book 4/5 stars and recommend it to readers who enjoy chick-lit. If you would like to purchase Just Listen, please click the title.  


The Book of Tomorrow by Cecelia Ahern

To read the description of The Book of Tomorrow on goodreads.com, click the title.

Besides the eye-catching book cover, The Book of Tomorrow was an overall interesting book. I would consider this book a part of the YA, mystery, and fantasy genres, which is a different mix for me all in one book. I really liked the concept of knowing what the future will bring through a diary for a book. Of course this isn't realistic and I'd rather not know the future until it comes anyway ;)

The characters were also an interesting mix of personalities. From my reading, I "labeled" some of the characters as such: Tamara = bratty, Rosalenne = mysterious, Arthur = oblivious, Jennifer = confused, and Sister Iglistine = friendly. Tamara's character was over-the-top-annoying many times where she would constantly have an attitude, made rude, sarcastic comments, and would curse, right from the beginning of the novel. She also made wrong and embarrassing decisions that she had to deal with the consequences eventually. However, she wasn't all bad. As the story progresses, Tamara does surprise readers.

Tamara's rich life turning upside down was interesting to read about because in a way, she kind of deserved it. Like I previously mentioned, everyone should appreciate everything and everyone before they lose and regret it. Tamara learned this the hard way. Once she did lose her former lifestyle, she started to appreciate the little simple things in life like the bluebottle and her parents. "My handsome dad on the floor... And when he got old I was supposed to protect him, I was supposed to be there for him, paying it all back... If I'd learned how, if I'd paid attention, if I'd tried to be an interested, better person than the selfish one I'd been, then maybe I could have helped" (218). We all hear the respect our parents deserve, but unfortunately we forget and reject this, especially in times of anger. Tamara's example should help us remember to respect, appreciate, and love our parents before we are separated from them in any way.

The last 7 chapters really started to grab my attention because this is where the mystery starts to unfold. A few parts within these were really good and worth mentioning. One part in particular actually made me cry (251). The final chapter in The Book of Tomorrow shows the progress that Tamara made in her character and perspective on life. She read in the diary, "The diary definitely led me here. It helped me discover the secrets, but it also made me a better person.. it helped me to realize that there are tomorrows. Before, I only concentrated on today. I would say and do things in order to get what I wanted right then. I never gave a second thought to how the rest of the dominoes would fall. The diary helped me to see how one thing affects another. How I can actually make a difference in my life and in other people's lives... I definitely think about books a lot differently now" (307-308). Funny how a diary changed Tamara's life, but this just goes to show that change can happen for the better and something can be learnt from all our experiences in life, even unfortunate ones. And don't forget to look at books more positively ;) (I actually know people who don't like reading books and I really feel bad for them...)

Overall, I gave this book 4/5 stars and recommend it to anyone who thinks this YA/ mystery/ fantasy book may be interesting. If you would like to purchase The Book of Tomorrow: A Novel, please click the title.


The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster

To read the description of The Phantom Tollbooth on goodreads.com, click the title.

I didn't have high expectations for this book since someone close made it sound boring. But I'm glad I gave it a chance for myself because I ended up really enjoying it. While I was reading The Phantom Tollbooth, I realized that this book is a great choice for teachers to assign to students in grades 5-8. As someone who is majoring in elementary and middle school education and English, I found this book interesting and appropriate for the grades mentioned and would make my future students read this (as well as  Wonder by R J Palacio) I would recommend this to teachers of young students who wonder why they have to learn and go to school, thinking these are wastes of time, and are constantly bored. Parents of young students should also give this book a try to encourage and reinforce some of the ideas written in The Phantom Tollbooth. While I liked the book overall, my only complaint is that some parts were confusing and had to be re-read, which is why I think the book is appropriate for 7th and 8th grade students too since 5th and 6th may have more difficulties understanding The Phantom Tollbooth.

There are numerous illustrations throughout The Phantom Tollbooth, which helps break the text for young readers. The 50th anniversary edition in particular included some essays in the end that may be helpful to (future) teachers. Suzanne Collins, author of The Hunger Games trilogy, wrote that her language arts teacher when she was eleven asked her class to "pretend Milo had made just one more detour on his road trip and to write that chapter" (265). I think this would be a fun assignment for students to use their imagination and write about another subject/ topic they think worth learning about, for example the importance of good health through a city of fruits/ veggies ;) I also really enjoyed reading Bev Walnoha's ideas for incorporating The Phantom Tollbooth in her lessons (275-277).

As you can tell, there are many aspects of the book that I like. I love adventure books like The Hobbit and The Phantom Tollbooth also falls under this genre in my opinion. Milo's story reminded me a little of The Wizard of Oz, where different characters would join the main character on their journey. Milo learns many unusual ideas on this journey. For example, words can be bought, sold, and traded for (45), one actually eats their words (86), people grow down as they grow up in age (102), music makes colors (121), and numbers are dug up from mines (177). Throughout his expedition, Milo meets a Spelling Bee and Which, Chroma the conductor, the Mathemagician, the infamous princesses Rhyme and Reason, and others. I also like the play on words as seen in some of the character names along with the Sea of Knowledge and Wisdom Kingdom.

Many wise words were said in this unique world. Tock the watchdog explained to Milo the origin of time and how he became a watchdog and added, "For you see, it [time] is our most valuable possession, more precious than diamonds. It marches on and tide wait for no man... (34). I don't know many people who compare time to diamonds, but this shows the importance of time and not wasting it, especially "killing" it. After all, time can never be replaced or bought back. The count also had some advice to share. He told Milo that he "must pick his words very carefully and be sure to say just what you intend to say" (44). This is a good reminder for us all to "say what we mean and mean what we say." Miscommunication always seems to happen amongst people and leads to bigger problems, so speak carefully the first time. Finally, Rhyme and Reason shared some of the best words of wisdom with Milo. They said, "You must never feel badly about making mistakes as long as you take the trouble to learn from them... it's not just learning things that's important. It's learning what to do with what you learn and learning why you learn things at all that matters... You may not see it now [purpose in learning], but whatever we learn has a purpose and whatever we do affects everything and everyone else, even in the tiniest way (233). So much thought and truth in the words of princesses!

Overall, I gave this book 5/5 stars. If you would like to purchase The Phantom Tollbooth 50th Anniversary Edition, please click the title.


Beneath the Glitter by Elle and Blair Fowler

To read the description of Beneath the Glitter on goodreads.com, click the title. To hear Elle talk about her book, watch Inside Beneath the Glitter and Beneath the Glitter Chapter 1

Based on the description of the book, the 5 words I would use to describe Beneath the Glitter are YouTube, sisterhood, boys, Hollywood, and drama. I've been watching the two sisters on YouTube for a few years now, so I wanted to read their book out of curiosity. In Elle and Blair's message to their readers, they wrote, "We based the London sisters on ourselves, but everything else that happens in the book and all the other characters are completely made up. In other words, they story is very loosely based on our lives, but please don't think this is an exact retelling of our story." While reading Beneath the Glitter, Sophia did sound like what I imagine (because of her videos) Elle and her lifestyle to be like in reality, but not so much Ava as Blair. Because of this, it made me wonder exactly how much of the events in the book involving the sisters really happened.

I found this book quite entertaining. Except for the fact that there was too much emphasis on guys, there were a number of pros. The chapter titles to begin with were cute and girly (not surprising). Some of them are: Once Upon a Crime, Damsel in a Dress, Miss Understandings, and Friend or Faux? Each chapter also ends with LonDOs and LonDON'Ts, which Elle explains in her Inside Beneath the Glitter video.

A few of the characters were interesting. I like sarcasm if it is not rude and some of Dalton and Ava's conversation made me smile. For example, when Sophia decided to adopt a deaf white kitten (Pinecone anyone?) and was asked what she would name him, Dalton suggested "You could name him after me" to which Ava replied, "It wouldn't be fair to name him Trouble. He seems too nice for that." The two go back and forth so Dalton says, "Maybe your sister should name it after you then." Ava answers, "What? Smarty Pants?" (64-65). Giovanni the physic bartender and sculptor was also a funny and interesting character (49). Finally, a minor character that helps Ava out towards the end of the book (232) had me laughing for a few minutes.

There is a lot of drama in every chapter, which kept me reading. A big message that comes across in Beneath the Glitter is "fame and fortune comes with a price." While there are perks to being well- known and wealthy, there are also cons, like having to deal with haters and jealousy, people looking for ways to out do and even ruin their "enemies." This is something for people to keep in mind, especially today's young generation who are made to think that life will be perfect if they acquire high status and all that it comes with. Beneath the Glitter ended on a mysterious note. The epilogue makes me want to read the sequel and find out who the "bad guys" are that are out to ruin the London sisters. I have a hunch who it may be, but I'll wait till Elle and Blair's next book to find out for sure ;)

Overall, I gave this book 4/5 stars and recommend it to viewers/ fans of Elle and Blair and also readers who like chick-lit. If you would like to purchase Beneath the Glitter: A Novel, please click the title.


Far From Home by Na'ima B. Robert

To read the description of Far From Home on goodreads.com, click the title.

Honestly, I didn't think I would like this book, but ended up loving it! Anyone who knows me well, knows that I HATE racism and sexism. So naturally, this book got a lot of reactions out of me, mostly because there was a lot going on around the subjects of racism and sexism. There is also a lot of history within the story, which was actually interesting. The plot is highly relevant to the world today were people in power spread "news/ propaganda" to split people up and take sides.

Far From Home brought me back to my freshman History class in uni. where I read almost the entire textbook. The one thing that stuck with me since then was the history of "whites/ Europeans" as oppressors. Now I know not everyone is the same just because they belong in a certain "group," but the history behind "whites/ Europeans" is overall negative. Although we learn about the advancements and accomplishments of this group, little if any mention is brought up of how "whites/ Europeans" have terrorized people for hundreds of years! From the slaves in Africa, Aborigines in Australia, Jews in Europe, Native Americans, African Americans, Chinese and other immigrants to America, and now Muslim Americans. Ironic how the oppressors are made to look like the oppressed nowadays when their own history is against them... I sympathized for the oppressed in Far From Home (65-68). Like I previously mentioned, the plot is highly relevant to the world today were people in power spread "news/ propaganda" to split people up and take sides. The oppressed are made to look like the oppressors and vice versa. It really is sad how much people haven't changed and learned from the past, since history does tend to repeat itself.

The female characters in Far From Home really stood out to me. For example, Tariro and her mother, and also Mainini. One part that is my favorite is when Tariro's mother talks about her daughter's birth: "Your father was very worried about me. But I had never felt better! I had a daughter, a daughter I had prayed for, and I felt different somehow, changed. Giving birth to you made me know my own strength. I will always be grateful for that" (10). In many cultures unfortunately, the birth of a daughter wasn't a happy occasion unlike for a son. So much drama and problems occur between families just to have son(s). Why? One reason mentioned in Far From Home is because, "One with a real family is one who has boys, one with a family of girls has strangers', as they will leave the home when they marry and join their husband's clan" (13). How rude is that?! It's great though that Tariro's mother was empowered by the birth of her daughter. As for true Muslims, we know the power of females ;) "When she (muslimah) is a daughter, she opens the door of Jannah (Heaven) for her father. When she is a wife, she completes half of the deen of her husband. When she is a mother, Jannah lies under her feet." -Women of Islam: Powerful Lecture. Never underestimate the power of Muslim women!
 
Anyways, there is a lot more that I could say about how much I enjoyed and learned from Far From Home. I loved Tariro's outspoken character. When she wanted to know what her brother and the other men were up to, Farai said," These are the concerns of men- you should not lose sleep over them..." Tariro replied, "How can you say that? Don't the actions of you men, your choices, affect us all? Do we not carry the burden of your decisions? Do we not suffer the pain and humiliation when you give up? Do we not bury the dead when you decide to stay and fight? Do you think that because we tend the fields and carry babies on our backs that we do not have eyes to see? That because we spend our days cooking and washing clothes in the river, we do not understand the words that are said when you men are in council?" (74). Smart and accurate comeback Tariro! 
 
And finally, Mainini's words of wisdom to Tariro about Nhamo are worth mentioning here. Tariro was upset about the situation of her "love", but Mainini put things in perspective. Tariro said, "It doesn't change the fact that I love him and he loves me! I love him even more now." Tariro's behavior is another example of the nonsense things people say and do in the name of love. Mainini replied, "Now you are talking like a foolish girl! Why do you want to throw your life away on this boy?... Do not tell me that your mind is so full of words of love that you cannot think straight?" (88). She says much more that is worth reading the book!  
 
Overall, I gave this book 5/5 stars and recommend it to everyone! If you would like to purchase Far From Home, please click the title.

 
Divergent by Veronica Roth

To read the description of Divergent on goodreads.com, click the title.

This book had a lot of hype around it since it is a dystopian novel like The Hunger Games, but it wasn't as good as the latter in my opinion. I realized that the books that are made into a big deal, I have high expectations for, but then am disappointed, like The Fault in Our Stars, The Night Circus, and now this...

First of all, if I had to order the 5 factions and their virtues, Candor (the honest), Abnegation (the selfless), Dauntless (the brave), Amity (the peaceful), and Erudite (the intelligent), according to what I would most likely choose to least likely solely on the virtue and not the behavior of the faction members if this was realistic, I would pick Erudite, Candor, Abnegation, Amity, then Dauntless. I like learning and am a pretty good student, I try to be as honest as possible (even if it isnt' nice
sometimes...) and hate liars, I can be selfless depending on who is involved like children or close family and friends. I would be tied between Amity and Dauntless because I am not really peaceful since I argue a lot and don't always back down from confrontations and because I have a low pain tolerance and would rather be safe than sorry, being brave doesn't come easily either. Let me know in the comments how you would order yourself based on virtue and not behavior!

One thing that made me not like Divergent so much is the confusion between the 5 factions. While reading, I had to come back to this which was annoying to remember what each faction stood for. Also, half the time I thought there were 4 instead of 5 because not all of them were written about as much as the others. One faction in particular is very violent and reckless. I have a low pain tolerance so some of these would be too much for me if I was in this faction. For "fun" and necessity, they jump in and out of a speeding train, get an abnormal amount of tattoos and piercings, young (and immature) people learn to use knives and guns as weapons, which is sometimes used against other people out of jealousy. For example, one member in this faction got stabbed in the eye (202-203) out of jealousy!

Overall, I gave this book 3/5 stars. While there is nothing that I actually really liked about Divergent, I still think it is worth reading because the second book, Insurgent, gets better ;)

If you would like to purchase Divergent, please click the title. 

Sunday, June 23, 2013

WHY ISLAM's Dawah Article Writing Competition

 
I found out about this contest and thought why not enter. I figured I would submit my Muslim Women in Islamic History article I already had and just edit it a bit to make it worthy for the contest. I contacted them about the deadline and the last day is actually this Saturday June 29th, not Friday. For more details click the image above. Below is what I have so far. I would really appreciate any feedback on my updated article like what to add or take out (I can add about 230 more words). I encourage others to enter too!

Muslim Women in Islamic History

Little, if any thought is given to Muslim women in history. What part did they play in the early years of Islam? Were they looked down upon as many people assume Muslim women are? Is Islam, a religion and complete way of life, responsible for “oppressing” women? There is much to learn about Muslim women is Islamic History.

Muhmood A. Ghadanfar writes in his book, "Great Women of Islam Who Were Given the Good News of Paradise," “The women companions (Sahabiyat) of Prophet Muhammad (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) were as active in religion as in politics, as courageous in war as in the peaceful and persuasive propagation of the teachings of Islam. These noble selfless women could be found in the battlefields, in the political arena, in the field of education, in the courts of Islamic jurisprudence, in the interpretation of Shariah (the collective laws revealed by Allah), in trade and commerce, in agriculture, in medicine and in nursing. In short, there was no sphere that did not benefit from their intellect, their wisdom, and their gentle yet firm strength and character.”

Additionally, it is reported with an authentic chain of narration that the Prophet Muhammad (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “The best women of mankind are four: Maryam (Mary, the mother of Jesus), Aasiyah (the wife of Pharaoh), Khadijah (the wife of Prophet Muhammad), and Fatimah (the daughter of Prophet Muhammad)” [Bukhari and Muslim]. While there were numerous Muslim women in the past who contributed in all spheres of life, below are four of the most well-known women in Islamic history.

Maryam bint Imran, the daughter of Imran, is an honorable and respected woman in Islam. She is free from any false claims associated to her with regards to the birth of Jesus (Esa, peace be upon him) and has a whole chapter (#19) in the Quran (the Muslim holy book and the last revelation sent to mankind by Allah through Prophet Muhammad) dedicated to her. The reason why Maryam is considered the best of all women is stated in the Qur’an. “Behold! The angels said, “O Maryam! Allah (the One True God of monotheism) has chosen you and purified you and preferred you above the women of all nations” [al- `Imran 3:42].

Aasiyah bint Muzahim, the daughter of Muzahim and the wife of Fir’awn (Pharaoh), went through harsh trials due to her tyrannical husband. She disbelieved in his false claims of divinity which brought about his anger, thus he would torture her. Due to her strong faith in Allah and rejecting Pharaoh as God, Pharaoh ordered for a big stone to be thrown over her, which caused her death. Her sacrifice for her firm belief brought about her high status compared to other women. Narrated Abu Musa: Allah’s messenger said, “Many amongst men reached (the level of) perfection but none amongst the women reached this level except Aasiyah (Pharaoh’s wife), and Maryam (the daughter of ‘Imran)… [Bukhari].

Khadijah bint Khuwaylid, the daughter of Khuwaylid, was a very successful business women and the wife of Prophet Muhammad. She was also the first person to accept Islam (believe in Allah as the Lord and Creator of the universe and everything in it, and that Muhammad is the last Prophet and Messenger of Allah sent to humankind). She provided support, strength, assurance, and wisdom to her husband through many difficulties and was honored by Prophet Muhammad even after her death.

Fatimah bint Muhammad was the fourth and youngest daughter of Muhammad (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). She resembled her father the most from her siblings and was the dearest to him. It is reported that Prophet Muhammad (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Fatimah is a part of me, and what hurts her hurts me” [Muslim]. Before her father’s death, Fatimah was told by him that she would be the first among his family members to join him in Heaven!

Does it make sense to think that after all that Muslim women have done in history, that Islam is the one to blame when people who claim to be Muslims, don’t practice the true teachings of Islam, but rather their culture, tribal and family practices, many times conflicting with Islam? There are reverts to Islam every year especially after September 11, most of them being women! Would it make sense that many women willingly choose to become a Muslim if there was no truth in Islam and benefit? Learn the truth for yourself from reliable sources before you judge!

Monday, June 17, 2013

My Bookshelf Tour


I decided to do a book shelf tour this week and will eventually get to the decor part iA once I finish. For now, here is what my book shelf looks like and for those wondering about the titles, I have listed them down below :) The shelf is the Borgsjo brown bookcase from IKEA. You will notice in the pictures (click to enlarge them) that I housed board games and textbooks too on my shelves. I personally like how it looks and all my books seem to fit on the middle 3 shelves. Shelf #3 has some empty space which I will fill with some books I ordered last week. I may do a quick haul this week when they come ;) Check out my book shelf tag for more random info. Hope this is interesting!

 
Shelf #1
Board games, marbles, and roll of clear contact paper for covering my books.


Shelf #2 from left to right (mostly fantasy series)
  1. Eragon & Eldest (Inheritance, #1-2) by Christopher Paolini
  2. The Sisters Grimm: The Fairy Tale Detectives & The Unusual Suspects by Michael Buckley
  3. Rise of the Evening Star (Fablehaven #2) by Brandon Mull
  4. Fablehaven (Fablehaven #1) by Brandon Mull
  5. The Master of Misrule (The Game of Triumphs #2) by Laura Powell
  6. The Game of Triumphs (The Game of Triumphs #1) by Laura Powell
  7. Monster Hunters (Nightmare Academy #1) by
  8. Into the Wild (Warriors #1) by
  9. Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (Harry Potter #7) by
  10. Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (Harry Potter #3) by
  11. Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them (Harry Potter Companion Books #1) by
  12. The Voyage of the Dawn Treader (The Chronicles of Narnia #5) by
  13. Prince Caspian (The Chronicles of Narnia #4) by
  14. Fairest (Enchanted #3) by
  15. The Calder Game (Chasing Vermeer #3) by
  16. The Eyre Affair (Thursday Next #1) by
  17. Magyk (Septimus Heap #1) by

Shelf #3 from left to right (fantasy cont., scary, classics, & Islamic books)  
  1. The Lightning Thief (Percy Jackson and the Olympians #1) by
  2. The  Secret Kingdom (Chronicles of the Red King #1) by
  3. The Eighth Scroll by
  4. Ten Things I Hate About Me by
  5. Turbulence (Echoes #3) by
  6. If I Should Speak (If I Should Speak #1) by

Shelf #4 from left to right (random books)
  1. Silent Mercy (Alexandra Cooper #13) by
  2. Midnight Angels: A Novel by
  3. Prism by
  4. The Elegance of the Hedgehog by
  5. Chocolate for a Teen's Soul: Life-Changing Stories For Young Women About Growing Wise and Growing Strong by
I have random books here like reference books, some from my Book Swap @ My Local Library and others and didn't think it necessary to list those.


Shelf #5
2 of my Harry Potter books without covers and a pile of library books (some will be featured in a collective book review post ;)


Shelf #6
Textbooks for university

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Gender Roles in the Late 1800s and Early 1900s

My 2nd paper for American Lit. class this past semester.

Around the late 1800s and early 1900s, there were specific roles for men and women as dictated by a male dominated society. Literature written about this time, especially those by women, told stories which described certain traditional gender roles. Examples of such included Kate Chopin's "The Story of an Hour" and The Awakening, and Charlotte Perkins Gilman's "The Yellow Wallpaper" and "To the Indifferent Women." The traditional gender roles that these two authors included in their stories and poem involved: women not working outside but men did, so men were the moneymakers while women were homemakers and mainly responsible for the family and home, but men did have some extent of responsibility inside the home as well. Women had more expectations put on their shoulders so when it became too much, some women did want to break free from the typical role of housewife and mother.

Primarily, women in society back in the late 1800s and early 1900s were not usually seen in the workforce. They were expected to keep to the house and take care of their family and home. Some women were even discouraged from any sort of work, even if it was done inside. For example, Gilman writes in "The Yellow Wallpaper", "So I… am absolutely forbidden to "work" until I am well again" (792). The "work" that is being discussed is later described as writing: "There comes John, and I must put this away- he hates to have me write a word" (Gilman 793). The simple task of writing that women used for expressing themselves was even denied. Furthermore, the lack of females working is also evident in Chopin's The Awakening. The fact that "Mr. Pontellier gave his wife half the money which he had brought away from Klein's hotel the evening before" (566), shows that he wanted to keep his wife satisfied for not having an income of her own. Mrs. Pontellier's contentment is seen in the following words: "She liked money as well as most women, and accepted it with no little satisfaction" (Chopin 566). Because women were made to stay indoors, they didn’t have the opportunity to earn money on their own. Any form of work other than housework was discouraged and made up for by giving some sort of "allowance" by men.

Due to the role of women staying at home, men were left to go out and be the breadwinners. In "The Yellow Wallpaper", the husband and brother were both "physicians of high standing" (Gilman 792). Since the family depended on the income of the male head of the household, the men still had to work, even if it meant working long hours and going away for days. This situation occurred in "The Yellow Wallpaper." Gilman writes, "John is away all day, and even some nights when his cases are serious" (794). Mr. Pontellier also had a few similar circumstances in The Awakening. For example, "He was returning to the city to his business, and they would not see him again at the island till the coming Saturday" (Chopin 566) and "As the day approached when he was to leave her for a comparatively long stay…" (Chopin 617). While women were meant to do all that was necessary to ensure a happy home, men had to do everything to secure wealth to make a happy home possible.

Since wealth was brought into the home by men, women had to take care of their family and home. These tasks as homemakers included the typical chores of looking after the safety and well being of children and spouse, and food and clothing being ready, whether done by the wife or maid. Generally, being a successful wife and mother was desirable. A lot of this behavior is seen in The Awakening. Mr. Pontellier had certain expectations for Edna and when she lacked the mother/wife role, his displeasure was mentioned. Chopin writes, " He reproached his wife with her inattention, her habitual neglect of the children. If it is not a mother's place to look after children, whose on earth was it?... He could not be in two places at once; making a living for his family on the street, and staying at home to see that no harm befell them" (565). Mr. Pontellier's mentality was common during his time period. Men believed their job was only outside and their wife's is inside. The mother role was further described as being easily recognizable. Mothers were seen "fluttering about with extended, protecting wings when any harm, real or imaginary, threatened their precious brood. They were women who idolized their children, worshipped their husbands…" (Chopin 567). Some women were accepting to this position of homemaker, like John's sister in "The Yellow Wallpaper." Gilman writes, "She is a perfect and enthusiastic housekeeper, and hopes for no better profession" (795). Women had more responsibilities at home as a wife and mother and were praised for their dedication to their family and home.

Although men's priority wasn’t inside the home, they still had some responsibilities. Men had to make sure their family's well being was fine. John in "The Yellow Wallpaper" illustrated this behavior clearly. His care went so far as to actually hurting his wife. John is described as "being very careful and loving, and hardly lets [his wife] stir without special direction" (Gilman 793). This special direction looks more like control than care. John's wife didn’t seem to agree with her husband's or brother's advice: "Personally, I disagree with their ideas. Personally, I believe that congenial work, with excitement and change, would do me good" (Gilman 792). Even though it may not have been their intention, men sometimes harmed women believing they were taking care of them properly. Louise Mallard felt this way. She thought, "…powerful will bending hers in that blind persistence with which men and women believe they have a right to impose a private will upon a fellow-creature. A kind intention or a cruel intention made the act seem no less a crime…" (Chopin 556-557). Women generally weren't outspoken back in the late 1800s and early 1900s, but some did recognize that they were being impaired.

With the lack of understanding from men and women having more responsibilities put on their shoulders, some women were struggling to break free from the gender roles in their time. People crack under pressure, so when it became too much, some women attempted to change their lives and experiment outside of the norm. They looked forward to a new life where they were independent, such as in "The Story of an Hour." At the news of a railroad accident and her husband's name being on the list of those killed, Mrs. Mallard was at first upset, " but she saw beyond that bitter moment a long procession of years to come that would belong to her absolutely. And she opened and spread her arms out to them in welcome. There would be no one to live for her during those coming years; she would live for herself" (Chopin 556). Little did Mrs. Mallard know, her husband was far away from the site of the accident and was alive to everyone's surprise. This surprise caused Mrs. Mallard to "die of heart disease- of a joy that kills" (Chopin 557), so she never got the chance to experience freedom.

Edna Pontellier did however get opportunities that other females were not able to have. For example, Edna socialized a lot, unlike John's wife from "The Yellow Wallpaper." One would think that she enjoyed the company she had and not being made to stay at home all day. But, even with this freedom that Mrs. Mallard was looking forward to in "The Story of an Hour" and that Edna had in The Awakening, Edna was not truly happy. Edna's awakening to the double standards around her turned her into a rebel by the end. She took her new freedom too extremely by taking off all her clothes, standing "naked in the open air" (Chopin 651). Again, people break when things become to overwhelming, so just as women desired freedom, when Edna got her wish, she drowned herself.

Because some female authors became aware of the double standards, they wrote against this. Gilman's sestina, "To the Indifferent Women," addressed women who are told to stay in their homes and work and that is their only duty. Gilman writes, "You who are happy in a thousand homes, or overworked therein... who told you that you need not know or care about the sin and sorrow of the world?" (1-6). The speaker makes strong points throughout the sestina to get the message across to women that they are important and needed both inside their homes and outside in society. For example, "The one and first duty of all human life is to promote the progress of the world in righteousness, in wisdom, truth and love" (Gilman 13-15). The solution that the speaker provides for the inclusion of women in society to better the world is, "When woman's life, in its rich power of love is joined with man's to care for all the world" (Gilman 38-39). Men and women both need to work together to make the world a better place.

Texts such as this sestina encourages women to get out of their "comfort" zone at home and help make a positive difference outside in the world. As for the other roles mentioned in the three stories that men and women had in the late 1800s and early 1900s, people need to be more open-minded. Men and women both need to change if they want to see improvement in the human race. Instead of thinking and acting like men from the past who preferred women to stay at home and not get involved in public, men need to accept that if women can be good mothers and wives, women can also be good members of the community. Women need to stand up for their rights and get involved in the outside world. They should not be passive, but active. Of course there is nothing wrong with women having a family and taking care of them, but life involves more people than just those in one's immediate surroundings. Men and women today are becoming more outspoken and outgoing, but there are still some changes that need to be made. This is possibly through education and exposure to the truth, whether through literature or media.

Works Cited

Chopin, Kate. "The Awakening." The Norton Anthology: American Literature 1865-1914. Ed. Nina Baym and Robert S. Levine. 8th ed. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 2012. 565-651. Print.

---. “The Story of an Hour.” The Norton Anthology: American Literature 1865-1914. Ed. Nina Baym and Robert S. Levine. 8th ed. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 2012. 556-557. Print.

Gilman, Charlotte P. "The Yellow Wallpaper." The Norton Anthology: American Literature 1865-1914. Ed. Nina Baym and Robert S. Levine. 8th ed. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 2012. 792-795. Print.

  ---. “To the Indifferent Women.” The Norton Anthology: American Literature 1865-1914. Ed. Nina Baym and Robert S. Levine. 8th ed. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 2012. 805. Print.

Sunday, June 2, 2013

My Top 10: Favorite Islamic Books + Extras!

Here is a list of my top 10 favorite Islamic books. Of course every Muslim should regularly read the Quran and understand it with a translation in whatever language is known best to an individual if not Arabic. For an English translation, I suggest Saheeh International and Muhsin Khan, which can be read @ http://www.allahsquran.com/read/verses.php?ch=1&vid= While on the subject of reading the Quran, especially in another language, please read Reading Quran/ Learning about Islam.

Below is my list where I tried to include links to the ebooks for those who don't mind reading them online. Others have links to where they can be bought instead. I added some extras at the end for those who want fiction recommendations related to religion/ Islam. So here is what I came up with!

1. Seeking the Truth Series: Just One Message by Dr. Naji I. al-Arfaj http://www.sultan.org/books/just-one-message.pdf
2. The Search for Inner Peace by Dr Bilal Philips
http://d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_articles/single/en_The_Search_for_Inner_Peace.pdf

3. A Brief Illustrated Guide to Understanding Islam by I.A. Ibrahim
http://www.islam-guide.com/
4. The Ideal Muslimah: The True Islamic Personality of the Muslim Woman as Defined in the Qur’an and Sunnah by
http://www.kalamullah.com/Books/The%20Ideal%20Muslimah.pdf
5. Women in Islam - Versus Women in the Judaeo-Christian Tradition: The Myth & The Reality by
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-status-of-women-in-islam-dr-sherif-abdel-azeem/1108335888?ean=9781471028564

9. Powerful Time Management Skills for Muslims by

10. Fortification of the Muslim
http://www.makedua.com/

Extra!!!
1. The Eighth Scroll by

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Heaven, Hell, or Somewhere in Between?

My 4th "mini" essay for Euro. Lit class.

Life is full of options that go through many different paths. Since humans are given free will, some choose to obey the commands of God for their own good while others do the opposite, harming themselves. But the majority, unfortunately, are “on the fence,” living in between the good and bad, picking and choosing “buffet style” what to believe/follow. The latter lifestyle leads people to say they don’t need to follow any religion/way of life, but they will just live a “good” life. People fool themselves, justifying their “good” behavior and saying they won’t be punished for having a neutral position in life. Dante writes about his journey through Hell in Inferno, including a level for neutrals where individuals, who lead uncommitted lives, choosing neither good nor evil during their time on earth, are punished. Dante answers the questions of why and how neutrals are punished and he gives an example of someone he meets on his journey who suffers such a fate.

Primarily, in Canto III, Dante asks Virgil who the people that are crying out in pain are. Virgil replies, "This is the sorrowful state of souls unsure, whose lives earned neither honor nor bad fame. And they mingled with angels of that base sort who, neither rebellious to God nor faithful to Him, choose neither side, but kept themselves apart" (Alighieri 698-699). According to Dante, neutrals have a place within Hell and are still punished for not committing to either good or bad. He compares this to some "fallen" angels who did likewise.

Dante further inquires of Virgil what the punishments of these souls are, which Virgil explains: "Now heaven expels them, not to mar its splendor, and Hell rejects them, lest the wicked of earth take glory over them" (Alighieri 699). Dante looks to see “a whirling banner sped at such a rate it seemed it might never stop; behind it a train of souls… Hapless ones never alive, their bare skin galled by wasps and flies, blood trickling down the face, mingling with tears for harvest underfoot by writhing maggots” (Alighieri 699). Virgil tells Dante upon this scene that neutrals don’t deserve Heaven and all its glory while Hell won't accept them either, in case people on earth who are also neutral become hopeful for a position in the afterlife or praise them. The blank banner that these souls chase symbolizes the meaningless lives neutrals lived on Earth. Because the neutrals didn’t commit to either side, wasps, flies, and maggots continuously keep them moving in pain.

Dante comes across an individual amongst the neutrals. This person "who made the Great Refusal, impelled by cowardice" (Alighieri 699), is probably a reference to Pope Celestine V. The pope was elected in 1294 at age 80 and resigned five months later (Alighieri 699). His resignation made it possible for corrupt leaders to rule, thus the pope is being punished just like the other neutrals. While there is no way to guarantee the actions of others, being in a high position means one should be capable of leadership, thus one is responsible for corruption that may happen under one's watch.     

As for the neutrals of the past and present who say they don’t need to follow any religion/ way of life, but will just live a “good” life, the question becomes what is "good" and according to whose standards? For example, there is a country in central Africa where stealing isn't punishable (Purpose). Societies like these determine what is acceptable or not. Yet what one person/society may accept, others won't. There is no universal standard for good and bad in situations like these. Thus, God needs to tell His human creations what is acceptable and what isn't for their own good in this life and the next through messengers and scriptures.

Additionally, people fool themselves, justifying their “good” behavior and saying they won’t be punished for having a neutral position in life. What if one sees someone stealing? Knowing that stealing isn't good, is it okay not to stop the thief? If someone says, "It's not my business," then just like the situation involving the pope mentioned previously, one is letting evil to take place. The world will only get more corrupted with this attitude. If one doesn’t stop wickedness from occurring when one has the power to do so, then that should be punishable, just like Dante believes. It is only fair. If our stuff was being stolen we would care and want help, but we feel we do not need to do the same for others. Whether or not Dante was right in his descriptions of neutrals being punished in Hell is one thing, but one needs to understand that not forbidding bad (or promoting good) is bad in itself.

Dante gives a brief glimpse of the fate of neutrals according to what he believes. His journey to Hell and back is one version in literature of what happens when one dies. Dante establishes justification for neutrals being punished for sinning, since they chose to do evil while alive. God gave humans free will, and because He is Just, God punishes people for their bad choices in Hell and rewards those who do good actions according to His commands in Heaven. Every action humans do in life should be well thought through, because it will come back to bite. 

Works Cited

Alighieri, Dante. "Inferno Canto III." The BedfordAnthology of World Literature. Vol. 2.          Boston: Bedford/St. Martin, 2004. 697-99. Print.

Purpose of Life. Perf. Kamal El Mekki. YouTube. N.p., 21 Mar. 2009. Web. 8 Apr. 2013.             https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fn5gXHINbNc.